frextra
A term that describes people who try too hard to be friendly or friends. These are the people who extra when it comes to being friends with someone or a large group of people. People can be frextras with minority groups by trying too hard to make everyone think the way that minority group thinks.
She's a gay frextra. I mean it's great that she tries to be friends with all of them, but she's sometimes a little extra because she tries to make everything else gay as well, when she herself isn't even gay.