rest stop gay
A person who is gay, but lives a double life as a heterosexual. Beyond closeted. The person may be married with kids, etc. but gets the gay love on the sly, in cheap motels, bath houses and rest stops.
I know he's married, but he's gay--rest stop gay--why do you think he's always going on "business trips" to San Fransico.
gay stop
A gay stop is a homosexual one night stand.
I just had an amazing one night stand. I mean of course it was a gay stop, bc, u know , I'm gay