gendergy
Gendergy or (g)en(d)ergy is the masculine and feminine energy present in, and expressed by, humans in interpersonal interactions. A female-bodied human can, at times, express her masculine gendergy. A gender non-binary human can, at times, express their masculine and feminine gendergies.
Although often in his masculine gendergy, Oscar held me tenderly after my heartbreak. I didn’t know he was capable of being so confident and comfortable in his feminine gendergy.