gobese
An alternative adjective for gay fat. Descibes a gay man who would be considered healthy by most cultural norms, but in the gay community is considered to be drastically overweight. Situation can progress to become morbidly gobese.
As soon as his abs were no longer visible, Scott realized that he was officially gobese.
morbidly gobese
Description of gay man who has progressed beyond gobese or gay fat and is 20 pounds or more overweight. At this point, he is considered dead to the gay community.
Scott suspected he was morbidly gobese when he had to buy jeans with a 36-inch waist, but his suspicions were confirmed when other men would avert their eyes in disgust and horror.