hoposexual
a person who is hoping to have sexual relations but fails
Ashleigha is a straight-up hoposexual, always hoping to have some sex but always declined.
hoposexual
Someone who really wants to be gay, but isn't. Usually a negative term used by the gay community.
She says she's a lesbian, but I'm pretty sure she's never had a crush on a girl. She must be a hoposexual. Probably emo too.