inadvertsult
When you tell someone something that inadvertently is an insult.
I say: "Gee Elaine, your mother looks like she could be your sister."
Elaine says: "Are you saying I look old?"
I say: "Oops, that was an inadvertsult!"
Elaine says: "Are you saying I look old?"
I say: "Oops, that was an inadvertsult!"