Love Lost
Firstly, I am clearly no expert on the subject of love; it appears I am as far from it as possible.
However, hopefully I can still impart some wisdom here that may at the very least help me and hopefully help others find some clarity after the love has been lost.
The purpose of life (as least to me) is to find someone to share your life with; someone you can love who also loves you.
For many of us who have found and lost that for whatever reason; life itself can appear pointless.
I have loved and been loved once.
I miss the love, I miss myself, but most of all I miss Chalice.
When a relationship ends it can do a great deal of damage to one or both parties.
While this is often inescapable; there is a way to at least attempt to minimise the damage.
Communication:
One of the most important aspects of any relationship.
If you truly care about someone as you should still do if you were ever in love with them, you will make the effort to listen to them and to attempt to give them clarity.
It takes two people to love; it may only take one for love to be lost. While it may be easier to protect yourself by blaming the other person for everything that ever went wrong or if you are that way inclined even attempting to hurt them and hating them; that is never fair to yourself or to them.
I am sure this is not as easy at it sounds; but, unfortunately life wasn’t meant to be easy.
However, hopefully I can still impart some wisdom here that may at the very least help me and hopefully help others find some clarity after the love has been lost.
The purpose of life (as least to me) is to find someone to share your life with; someone you can love who also loves you.
For many of us who have found and lost that for whatever reason; life itself can appear pointless.
I have loved and been loved once.
I miss the love, I miss myself, but most of all I miss Chalice.
When a relationship ends it can do a great deal of damage to one or both parties.
While this is often inescapable; there is a way to at least attempt to minimise the damage.
Communication:
One of the most important aspects of any relationship.
If you truly care about someone as you should still do if you were ever in love with them, you will make the effort to listen to them and to attempt to give them clarity.
It takes two people to love; it may only take one for love to be lost. While it may be easier to protect yourself by blaming the other person for everything that ever went wrong or if you are that way inclined even attempting to hurt them and hating them; that is never fair to yourself or to them.
I am sure this is not as easy at it sounds; but, unfortunately life wasn’t meant to be easy.
Some people can quite easily replace the one they loved, this appears to be the easiest way to gain closure for that person, but it is also the easiest way to diminish the one who still loves you.
Someone who can love completely will make the effort to help someone that they have loved.
In this day and age unfortunately/fortunately a lot of communication is via text/messaging/email etc. While this allows people to be able to communicate easily, it also allows people to ignore communication altogether and leave the other party with no knowledge as to whether their message was even received let alone read.
As I have recently discovered, this lack of knowledge can create great confusion and self doubt.
If you consider yourself to be a decent human being, you should at least make the effort to try to explain your feelings (or lack of them) or at the very least tell the other party that you do not wish to ever hear from them again.
Ignoring or blocking is rude, selfish and shallow.
This may appear to be attacking; however, it is simply my point of view at this time.
My love will never read this as she did not read other words. Perhaps for all I know now, she never did listen to or respect me at all. Right now that is all too easy to believe. Out of respect for her and myself however; I still believe that the love we shared was true and beautiful. I need to believe that.
Love Lost
Monday 18/01/2010
Someone who can love completely will make the effort to help someone that they have loved.
In this day and age unfortunately/fortunately a lot of communication is via text/messaging/email etc. While this allows people to be able to communicate easily, it also allows people to ignore communication altogether and leave the other party with no knowledge as to whether their message was even received let alone read.
As I have recently discovered, this lack of knowledge can create great confusion and self doubt.
If you consider yourself to be a decent human being, you should at least make the effort to try to explain your feelings (or lack of them) or at the very least tell the other party that you do not wish to ever hear from them again.
Ignoring or blocking is rude, selfish and shallow.
This may appear to be attacking; however, it is simply my point of view at this time.
My love will never read this as she did not read other words. Perhaps for all I know now, she never did listen to or respect me at all. Right now that is all too easy to believe. Out of respect for her and myself however; I still believe that the love we shared was true and beautiful. I need to believe that.
Love Lost
Monday 18/01/2010
No love lost
If there is "no love lost" between two people, they have a strong hatred, hostility, or enmity for the other person, and make no attempt to conceal it.
Son, I'm aware that there's no love lost between you and your cousin Bob, but we'll be staying at my brother's lake house all week, so you'd better not ruin our family vacation by fighting!
No Love Lost
A sort of hatred between two rivals, whether individuals or teams.
Sometimes used by head coach and sports personality, Dave Logan, to describe the relationship between Mullen High School and Grandview High School Football.
Sometimes used by head coach and sports personality, Dave Logan, to describe the relationship between Mullen High School and Grandview High School Football.
There's no love lost between us. We both just do our thing and when we go, we go.
no love lost no love found
There was no love there to begin with, so there is definitely none to be found now.
'Did you hear Dan slept with another girl on saturday night?' 'Why would I care he was selfish in bed anyway' 'Yeah good for you- no love lost no love found.'
lost love
When you've lost someone that was your world. Someone who meant everything to you. Someone who could utter a small stupid phrase that you never will forget. When you lose them you feel empty & hurt & neglected .. You feel like you will never ever love again.. This person could have shot you & you would have still loved them.
Guy 1: did you and that girl break up?
Guy 2: ya ..
Guy 1: get over her ..
Guy 2: man you can't get over someone like her .. It's just lost love ..
Guy 2: ya ..
Guy 1: get over her ..
Guy 2: man you can't get over someone like her .. It's just lost love ..
This Lost Love
A.K.A., TLL
A Central Florida based band, made up of very young individuals, whom incorporate elements of Thrash, Death, Gothic and Black Metal into their playing. Known for their energetic live shows (including facepaint and various forms of mosh pits) as well as lead singer Dante Glacé's thumping death growls and piercing shrieks frequently complimenting guitarists' Luke Krieg and Matt Malice's screaming solos and blistering riffs, as well as the double bass driven Cam Kill and certifiably insane bassist Kiel Mullet.
Playing numerous shows along the way, they are currently working on their first full length album, which is so far titled False Smile And Black Tears.
A Central Florida based band, made up of very young individuals, whom incorporate elements of Thrash, Death, Gothic and Black Metal into their playing. Known for their energetic live shows (including facepaint and various forms of mosh pits) as well as lead singer Dante Glacé's thumping death growls and piercing shrieks frequently complimenting guitarists' Luke Krieg and Matt Malice's screaming solos and blistering riffs, as well as the double bass driven Cam Kill and certifiably insane bassist Kiel Mullet.
Playing numerous shows along the way, they are currently working on their first full length album, which is so far titled False Smile And Black Tears.
what happens when you combine the vilence of Black Metal with the pure badass groove of Death Metal?
This Lost Love, Motherfuckers!
This Lost Love, Motherfuckers!
lost love
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