back talking

To be rude to your elders or disrespectful when ask to do something

A phrase your parents use against you in order to sound right whether you back talked or not

Back-fence talk (noun) is synonymous to gossip, rumour, scuttlebutt, dirty laundry, slander, defamation, hearsay, whispering campaign, malicious talk, and talebearing.

When your parents are arguing with you and you say something that proves your right

Defending or explaining yourself to any authority figure

A stupidass comeback your parents use when you have a correct answer to a question or a way to desolate a situation.

(1.) An asinine term said by fucked up authority figures, who think age should trump critical thinking, common sense, honest dialogue, or any sense of reasonableness.

There's a reason no adult accuses another adult of "talking back". It's as stupid as accusing a bird of chirping. If an adult wants to tell another adult they're being disrespectful, they use the term, "talking smack."

"Talking back" in contrast, is just the natural response anyone should expect, when they direct their words at another person. If someone does not wish to have a response to the things they are saying, furniture, inanimate objects, and non-human animals are available.

(2.) An adult example of regression, in which age is used as an excuse to not give an adult response, and instead basically tell someone to shut up.