Pajamadist
One who follows the ideology of pajamadism, and would prefer to hug and cuddle a girl rather than have sex with her.
Girl: I appreciate the self-control you're showing, but when are we going to make whoopie?
Guy: Oh, I'm more of a pajamadist, but if you want to do it, let's do it!
Guy: Oh, I'm more of a pajamadist, but if you want to do it, let's do it!