parental shoulder lurking
parental shoulder lurking is when a parent or guardian reads your IMs, facebook, or any other computerized messaging system. they would 'lurk' over your shoulder and read your personal messages that you have with friends or other people.
me: mom! would you quit your parental shoulder lurking! i'm not doing anything bad!
mom: suure you're not, kiddo, suure you're not.
mom: suure you're not, kiddo, suure you're not.