pussy managed
This is one step above being pussy whipped. You will do certain things to appease your lady for personal gain, but never as a whipped slave.
" Jim is not quite pussy whipped, he is just pussy managed "
Pussy Management
When a guy carries around a girl as if she were a bowling ball, with two fingers in the pussy and his thumb in her asshole.
Jack had to display his pussy management when Jill misbehaved.