Relatlovia

Relatlovia is the fear of relationships and being w someone else. I made up this name because I could not find any name for this. I have a fear of this and have anxiety when it comes to this stuff. I will like someone so much, but right when they like me I freak and stop liking them. I also will only really want someone when they are taken, as in I can not have them. When I think about being with someone or having a relationship I have many reactions. My stomach gets butterflies, I get goosebumps, and my heart will beat really fast. This is SOMETHING i can control, and I have talked to my best friend and I think with time it will get better. Advice to those who feel the same: -life is to short, so spend it with those who make you happy.

-if It didn’t work their will be someone better.
-love isn’t something to be scared of, although I have this ideal that I am scared of this stuff I think I just don’t want to admit that I could be hurt by those around me.

- learn from your mistakes and try and understand this problem and work with it.

LOL I wrote this for me but If this helped you I am glad:)))