romance research
The act of collecting empirical dating data through specific interpersonal experiences: dinners, arguments, online chat conversations, meeting your date's family and friends, and other circumstances which give a more inclusive and sharpened view of the other person.
"I got into a fight with that chick I've been dating - it was rough, but at least I know how we handle arguments now. It's just more romance research to help me know if we're right for each other."