sad sack sadist
A man who serial kills, rapes or wife beats, tortures, humiliates women because he's sad that he is a man and envies women.
Ted bundy is a sad sack sadist but wants us to think he's mad at his ex dumping him. Ann Rule was a friend of his and wrote a book about him inviting all his friends to meet him at a gay bar. Too bad he can't just meet a nice guy instead of being such a SAD SACK SADIST.