slap your girl dick in the butter dish
To unapologetically come out as trans in a setting where you were "passing."
Victoria: I want to come out to my boyfriend's family while we're there for Thanksgiving, but I'm not sure the best way to do it.
Jessica: Hon, you just gotta stand up at dinner and slap your girl dick in the butter dish.
Jessica: Hon, you just gotta stand up at dinner and slap your girl dick in the butter dish.