slow player
an ex-girlfriend/boyfriend. Your former relationship was always holding you back from living a fun and exciting life. Your friends can often become slow players in an non-sexual manner
guy 1: those chicks are hot, lets go talk to them
guy 2: i don't want to, lets stay here and finish our drinks
guy 1: quit being a slow player, now might be our only chance to score
guy 2: i don't want to, lets stay here and finish our drinks
guy 1: quit being a slow player, now might be our only chance to score