soldier guy

well, this is sound bad but this is true,,well, i realized that im married with a soldier means i cannot expect anything from him, because his job being in the army, he always gone....the army always take him away from me and his families...but i understand, because im not giving up, because i love him ..but after all i did good things for him ,he screwed everything because her gf ..(shes soldier )so my hubby and her having a relationship,...i hate to say this.. all women who are married to soldier guy must be careful in their woman soldier because they're leech ....