Stirring the gravy
The next step beyond "licking the spoon". More specifically, stirring the gravy is having sex with a girl. Your dick is the spoon and her pussy is the gravy.
Ive been seeing her for weeks now, and i still haven't stirred the gravy! But at least she let me lick the spoon. Stirring the gravy is the same thing as saying you slid into home. See also: sex
Stir the gravy
When the female continues to fuck (cowgirl or reverse cowgirl) after the guy has cum inside her. ( unprotected). Usually rocking her hips in a circular motion for best effect.
Last night after sex , she stayed on top because she wanted to stir the gravy.