the man of your dreams
Every little girls fantasy, a dangerous misconception that one person can save you from yourself. It is dangerous to assume that they are your soulmate because darling, because a knight in shining armour has never had their armour tested. Do not trust your fifteen year old self idea of true love, they are just a fantasy man.
The man of your dreams was tall, smart and charming. Charming does not mean shit unless they are compassionate.