bipho
bisexual & phobio-romantic. A person who is bisexual but due to social anxiety, social phobia, or genuine worry of persecution doesn't seek out relationships. They may courted by members of the opposite sex who assume they are straight.
"She's a bipho. She likes girls, but she's too shy to ask anyone out."
"Tell that to the guy hitting on her."
"Tell that to the guy hitting on her."