trauma-tripping
Similar to guilt-tripping, this is when someone brings up traumatic experiences that aren't relevant to the conversation at all, and is only brought up so that they can make a person feel bad. Usually, this is done in response to being called out for something
Megan: "I can't believe you stole my shoes. You could've just asked me.
Naomi: Well, I have cancer so the least you could do is let me borrow your stuff sometimes.
Megan: Why are you trauma-tripping me right now...?
Naomi: Well, I have cancer so the least you could do is let me borrow your stuff sometimes.
Megan: Why are you trauma-tripping me right now...?