bunny boiler

Clingy possesive overbearing psycho bitch of a girlfriend. (think fatal attraction)

n. a woman who follows or observes her mark persistently, especially out of obsession or derangement (stress derangement). A bunny boiler's mark is a man that she has had sex with maybe one time, usually this man is hard working and strives to succeed profesionally and in life. A bunny boiler's plan consists of plan A and plan B.

Plan A: The ultimate goal of a bunny boiler is to fix her mark's life by interfering and/or setting him up and blackmailing him in an effort to force him into a horrible relationship that was never meant to be. The bunny boiler's goal is almost certainly a recipe for disaster and a fate worse than death itself. When the plan begins to fail the bunny boiler then resorts to plan B: destruction.

The term is taken from Glenn Close's character in 'Fatal Attraction', who after engaging in a steamy hot one time sex scene with a colleague, Michael Douglas' character, she resorts to boiling her former one time sex parter's family pet rabbit in an all out war aimed at disrupting his life, family, career and destroy (emphasis on destroy) him for not wanting a sincere man/woman (nuclear family) type relationship with her.

an unhinged and overly possessive woman. From the rabbit boiling scene in the film "Fatal Attraction". e.g. "I don't like the look of that aeroplane blonde-could be a bunny boiler".

A vile, vindictive woman who can't let her man go. Made worse if man and woman have child together. Woman uses child to get at man. Man gets screwed up. Woman spends life simmering in her own bile and bitterness. Don't have children with a bunny boiler.

just a special note for some of you who have defined bunny boiler. the key bunny boiler characteristic is such that a bunny boiler is not the girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, wife etc. of the man who's bunny gets boiled. she is just some skank who he, maybe, poked in the whiskers or gave it too one time on a whim or a dare (or request) from a friend when he was drunk. really having no liability whatsoever, not even a requirement to call.

a person who is so obsessed with another they will boil your pet bunny for attention.

Inspired from the movie Fatal Attraction when the mistress of Michael Douglas boils his daughters rabbit on his kitchen stove in a pot because he decides to stay with his wife instead of her.

Term used to describe someone you've just met and are casually dating only to find out later that they are "stalker material" and possibly psycho obsessed with you.