burntstickgender
Burntstickgender: A xenogender described as a the feeling of sticks that were once on fire but since burnt out. This may include feeling like your gender was once roaring and loud but is now dull and burnt out, just ashes of its past self. still there but much darker and weaker.
"my gender is burntstickgender, my gender feels like it was once very strong and intense but has died out and is now just a darker, weaker version of my old gender."