charlipulate
Charlipulator: The action of attempting to manipulate or control someone's emotions, perceptions, or self-esteem through peculiar and ineffective means. This often includes behaviors such as calling someone "special" or "different", complimenting said someones appearance while simultaneously relegating them to a platonic relationship status, and persistently inquiring about their well-being in an attempt to "fix" you.
he was trying to charlipulate her, you know, constantly telling her special and pretty but never making a move, and constantly trying to make her open up. weird guy forreal"
Charlipulator
Used to describe someone who is on the verge of being manipulative towards primarily friends and family. Often involving drastic and sudden change of pronouns with no notice, using pre-existing relationships to justify wrongful behaviour.
Bro 1- I worry about you getting too close to Bro 3. You know they are a Charlipulator.
Bro 2- Thanks bro, i'll be careful and look for the signs of sudden charlipulation.
Bro 2- Thanks bro, i'll be careful and look for the signs of sudden charlipulation.