Fem9man
Fem9man or Femi9man/Femnman is short for feminine man, a contraction of the word "fem" & "nine" from "Feminine". (Plural form is of course, Fem9men) Fem9man is used to refer to oneself as a feminine adult man instead of using Fem9boy which includes the word "boy" in it, usually referring to younger boys. Again, this term is just optional for those who prefer to use it for themselves or to refer someone who's feminine & older.
Ways to pronounce them (by saying it quickly):
Fem9man: Fem-Nine Man
Femnman: Feh-Muh-Nuh-n Man
Fem9man: Fem-Nine Man
Femnman: Feh-Muh-Nuh-n Man