Fitinalite
A person who desires, needs, wants, aspires to fit into the society he is a member of so much that it hurts to see it happening to a fellow human being.
See that fellow in the corner with the lampshade on his head, well it's obvious to a blind man that he's just a real fitinalite, but is definitely not the life and soul of the party! / The fitinalites will inherit the Earth! Or maybe they already have!