Doblerize
In "Say Anything," the hero, Lloyd Dobler, confronts a friend who is drunk and being difficult. Dobler gets in his face and shouts "You. Must. Chill!" So to Doblerize is to tell somebody (possibly yourself) to calm down and step away from the ugly bag.
Lloyd Dobler
To stand outside the window of the girl/boy's house you are attempting to court, while blaring a boombox over your head with a romantic song playing.
From the movie Say Anything
From the movie Say Anything
"Man, that dude totally scored by pulling a SWEET Lloyd Dobler on that girl!!"
dobler dahmer theory
A theory stating that if two people are into each other, a big romantic gesture works, but if one person isn't into the other, the same gesture comes off serial killer crazy.
Look, there's a fine line between love and insanity. It's the dobler dahmer theory.